I "surprised" Suzanne with outings to a couple of shows last week: a blues show, and a spoken word show.

This weekend, we went on a young adults' church retreat. During some free time, we walked the grounds. During this time, I felt comfortable enough to tell her that I didn't see myself marrying her (or anyone else) anytime soon.

She then told me that she thought I was going to have a different sort of surprise.